#inTANGANPrive for Mother’s Day from the Sukardi Family
As Mother's Day approaches, TANGAN Prive invites mothers across generations from the same family to share their stories and experiences of motherhood.
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Noorani Sukardi
A Journey of Boundless Love and Unwavering Growth
Noorani is the first daughter from the Sukardi family to experience motherhood with two beautiful daughters of her own. “Motherhood to me, means pure love and joy,” she simply quoted.
Like many new mothers, Noorani’s experience was quite challenging. There’s a rollercoaster of a feeling that you never imagine, perhaps from some people including her, without losing her hopes. She shares her journey beautifully raw and honest, exactly what mothers could relate and feel. And that is totally much appreciated and ok. “This journey of joy is not without its challenges. Perhaps the most difficult aspect is overcoming your own fears and traumas is crucial to grow into a better person for your children. This involves confronting deeply rooted anxieties and healing past wounds so that it doesn't inadvertently pass on any negative patterns to your children. This inner work is demanding but ultimately rewarding. But one thing for sure, Motherhood has completely reshaped my life's purpose and direction. My children are my top priority, and their well-being takes precedence over all other roles I identify with. My focus has shifted, and I now find my greatest fulfillment in nurturing and guiding my children's growth.”
And as a mother, who tries to keep learning, she continues to maintain values not only for her children, but herself from her mother. “One of the most valuable lessons I've learned is to let go of expectations and cherish every fleeting moment with my children. Time slips away so quickly, and I want to savor each interaction, big or small. I strive to be present and fully engaged in their lives, appreciating the preciousness of these fleeting years. Among the most valuable lessons I learned from my mother is the importance of resilience. She possesses an unwavering inner strength and a remarkable capacity for kindness and generosity. Despite facing challenges, she rarely complains and always finds a way to persevere. I deeply admire these qualities and strive to instill them in my children, nurturing their own resilience and encouraging them to cultivate compassion and empathy towards others.”
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